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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 01:05

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

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Comes on , in middle age.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

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That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

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He resisted the act ,that day.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

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One cannot live in the past .

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Why do men cheat on their wives with someone extremely unattractive?

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

She married twice! .

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But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

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He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

She wouldn,t have been !

What made you recently say to yourself, “Wait. Really?”

We all went to grammer schools

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

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Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

She was in good health!

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

Why do men say women hit the wall at 24?

This is soul school!.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

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My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

I was seconnd youngest,

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

She loved him until the end.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

My family never makes their pension either.

Was to survive, this bastard.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

But, we were locked up after school.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Put me off passion for life!!

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

So, i spoilt her more .

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

What did i know ?

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Would this be the day?

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

All the time i was locked up.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

I was 9 years of age.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

He knew the spot.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

But it wasn’t much.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

I don,t even have a pension.

And i lived it daily.

I was scared of men, in general

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I never cut or harmed myself..

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I said to her

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

Who then, do I blame.?

I was very sick at this time too.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Ive learnt so much.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

When she asked me how she looked .

As i do to all so called friends.?

I think the readers, may guess!

Im still living with it.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

I will be 64.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

She found it foreign!.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

(And it was in our own minds.)

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Especially a lifetime of it.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I couldn’t, believe it.

I write beautiful poetry .

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

I could never make a relationship work though!

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

I know ,a lot about trauma.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

We were not on the streets..

It was going to be , some day.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

My life is so biszare .

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I have no regrets .

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

But ive been too sick for many years..

So whats the point in blame.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Why did i forgive my father ?

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I waited trembling.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..